its been sugested that i also seek angermanagement.though i feelt ambushed at theropy when it was sugested in the first place.mel made it seem that i was abusive.at least thats how i felt.im not.''what abot the bruses on my arms she said,i was stunned because on the day of the incident she/we laughed aboout it later.ok you had a bruse,how about the teeth marks on my arm and chest that has yet to go away? how about my blood that leeked outa my chest.all i did was grab you.ok maybe it was the wrong thing to do.but all i wanted was for you tostand and face me.not leave and leave me haning.i did want to beat you,or hurt you.i asked her right there and then are you afraid of me? she said no.so on our way home,i asked again.she said no.then she said how she did not like how the theropist sugested anger amnagement for me and not for her.am i crazy here or did i just get screwed?i dont know.maybe i do need it.idid say i'd go for that as long as it would make her feel safe,so i will.anything to get help.