to day i played hooky from theropy to go to the museum with my wife and son.needless to say we got there too late.istead of haveing a bad atitude about it we decided to go and have a bite to eat. afterwords we walked out with smiles on our faces and my wife actualy grabbed my arm.she wrapped hers around mine.my heart flooded with love. and i smilled and told her.you just made my day.then we headed out to visit with her sick mother in the hospital.her mom embraced me and told me that what ever happens with me and my wife (her daughter) that shed still want me to call her and keep in touch.i nearly cried. iwas touched. of course this perfect day would be tarnished with some bull shit.on the way back home we got into a discusion about what i should study in school and stuff.trivial but i stood my ground in my opinion.then she did something so beautyful,she pressed her lips on my shoulder and whispered in a sweet voice.'' dont be a jerk'' i smiled. and said what you see as me being a jerk may be me defending my self. she smiled and we werent angry any more. i love her,even when she drives me insane. man i wish we would not seperate.